So I've been a little bummed lately with the whole love department! but tonight i talked to one of the best guys i know and he made me realize that there is more to life, and that i just need to be myself and heavenly father will fix everything and make it better! So after having a spiritual high at stadium singing, Sam Whitney took me over to his apartment for crepes!!!! BTW they were delicious! So we got to talking and Stephanie and her roommate were there and Sam just busted out 5 ways to find the right guy! so i want to share them with you because they gave me inspiration and motivation to keep going and not give up!
1. Share your testimony
2. Be yourself
3. Be honest
4. Be Proactive
5. Be His Anchor
Share Your Testimony:
Sam talked about sharing just a little about your testimony will let you find out which guys are worth staying around for and it will allow them to see a side of you that you probably have not shared yet...
Be Yourself:
Girls just be yourself, if the guy asks you out on a date that means you don't have to impress him anymore cause hes already impressed! Just be yourself don't let it intimidate you, just talk to him like you would with friends and buddies.
Be Honest:
Be sincere guys!!! If a guy tells you he hates the color blue don't be dumb and just say "oh me too" be genuine and share your opinion as well! If you hate the color blue say it! "I HATE THE COLOR BLUE"
Be Proactive:
Its ok to ask a boy to go on a double date with you!! be proactive its a two way street you have to put in some effort as well they boy can't be the one to do everything!
Be His Anchor:
Last one... you have to give him support! Let him feel like when he's with you! he will feel safe and at peace. You should be his escape!
Sam Whitney i truly love you for that amazing mini seminar! girls we need to be confident and just forget about boys... but if you like someone go for it!! :) follow the steps! a wise man once said.. "if you are married and one day you walk in on him in the restroom and you see him and still love him... then you know that hes the right one for you!!!!!" hahahahhaaha I had an awesome day!